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Thursday, September 04, 2008

What do you all think about Homosexuality?

As we all know Sex is one of the part in our life and it is really a gift for all of us, right? We are having many nice relationships in this world to enjoy our life and one Love is enough to satisfy us in every thing. Then I don't know for what reason many prefer this kind of relationship in their life time. So many relationships are there for us, Sex is there to enjoy our life in a happier way. But what's the need for these people to choose relationships like this? Here I am not trying to blame any one, because it's their personal life, they are having their own rights to choose what they have to do in their personal life. Here I am trying to get the thoughts from worldwide about this Homosex concept. Will you all accept this in your lifetime?

What you think about homosex?

Thursday, August 14, 2008

World : Bribe for everything....... When will this change?



Here I am going to discuss a much-needed topic for today’s society. I am straight away entering into the subject. The first thing is in my country(India), bribe was spread all over the country. From all the government offices to small sectors it was there. It’s hard to get a job finished from government offices without bribe. Here I will list out some of the worst things in my country,

i.) Accepting bribes in Govt. hospitals for doing Pregnancy and other Critical Operations.
ii.) Accepting bribes at traffic signals and leaving all the culprits.
iii.) Accepting bribes in all the Govt. offices to get a job done.
iv.) To give a College/University seat accepting bribes.
v.) For getting license, passport etc, accepting bribes.

And so on…………………………… This post is not enough to list out all the things here. Here I listed out 0.1%. Still lot more there.

I don’t know whether these things are happening only in our country or all over the world. You people just share your views here about this and answer this question.

Who is responsible for this?

a.) Public who are ready to give bribe.

b.) People who are asking bribes for everything.


When this will change?

Two ry's plays a major role in women's life. Am i right?

The thing that we are going to discuss here is about two ry's. These two things plays really a major role in women's life. But it does not mean that women's life fully depends on this, i am just saying that majority of women's life is fully depends on this, as far as considered in India. No idea about other countries. I am leaving that topic discussion to my fellow foreign bloggers, but my friends here will discuss about the situation in India. Read the below lines then you will get my point, how these two ry's plays a major role in women's life especially in India.

First you give Dowry, then i will Marry you.

Today in India if a girl has to get married means, then she has to face so many problems. One of the main problem is Dowry. If girls family can't able to give that Dowry means then, i am surely saying there is no any words to express about the tortures that the girl will face in boys family. Many lost their lives because of this Dowry here in India, it's true. No one is realizing the value of Human lives and no one is feeling it. Now you people tell what you think about these ry's. And try to answer these questions,

Will you give Dowry (any case)? - No

Will you accept Dowry (any case)? - No

Will you ask Dowry (any case)? -No

Dowry marriage, is it necessary? - No

Give a name to the people who asks bribes to marry a girl? - B*****D


What's yours?

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Cricket or Football - Which one you like?

::::: Cricket or Football :::::

Today many kinds of sports are there, which are having some uniqueness in it. Each and every sport is having some specialty and grace among the people. But the Cricket and Football are two giants, which is conquering this whole world through the popularity. From my point of view, compared to cricket football is having more popularity in each and every part of this world. Here in India cricket is more popular than football. I am not having any idea about other countries. You people just tell which you like most and also share the reason why you like it.

Which one you like?

:::: IPL 08 or EURO 08 ::::




Friday, August 08, 2008

What do you think about Pre-Marital Sex?


I don't know how many of you will accept this concept "Pre-Marital Sex". If two people are loving each other means it's upto them whether they should have sex or not before marriage. No one is having rights to involve into that thing, because it's their personal matter. Here i am not going to tell or give any suggestions about Pre-Marital Sex, it's upto the people who involves in it. The thing that i needed from my fellow bloggers is what they think from their point of view about this issue. Are they ready to accept pre-marital sex concept in their life time? As i already told in one of my previous posts just leave the Broadminded thinking, Developed countries, developing countries etc,. Just say what you people think about it and what you feel about it.

My answer is : It's just a waste of preciou time




Thursday, August 07, 2008

Untouchability is a Sin, Crime!!!!!



Hi guys and gals........ Here am going to discuss one important topic. I want you people to share your views and discuss it in a serious manner.

In India, so many things are happening which are good as well as bad. But the main and sad thing is "Untouchability". Even though our country is a developing one, even though it is standing upfront in the software field and so on... These type of stupid things are not getting rid of our country. For this the main reason is "Illeteracy".

I want you people to share your answers here, to get rid of these stupid things in future...
What will be the correct solution for this?

Tuesday, August 05, 2008

Ladies and their Woes

There are some men who promise marriage to women, but all the while what they want is…You bet I know what I am talking about here. I am miffed by the way some men treat ladies. You may throw all Beijing 'blue blistering barnacles' (remember Captain H*** in theTintin comic!) my way but I'll still hold my ground, look you in the face and tell you what I don't like!
Some men take advantage of the 'men-are-as-old-as-they-think; women-are-as-old-as-they-look' saying. They 'know' that looks to women are like shells to snails – they will go to great lengths to preserve their youth (at least for their 'prince charming'!).
You still don't get the drift of this piece. Let me explain.I know of some men who have courted young, beautiful women. But after about two or so years they broke up with them for reasons best known to them. The while the courtship lasted, the ladies built so much hope in being married by the men that shared their lives.The sad thing here is that the men were all the while not serious with 'their' ladies. They just lied through their teeth that the relationship would end up in walking down the aisle to consummate their 'fiery' love. But the converse of that was true all the while.
Put yourself in these ladies' shoes. Having put all their years and energies into the one thing that they thought would work, they are totally broken when the bombshell is exploded on their laps: "It's over between us; It just couldn't work; You were not the one for me; I made a wrong turn in the road of life; I think I now know where I am headed and you just don't fit in the bigger picture."This is very 'brutal', to say the least.
Why couldn't you just tell the truth as it were before the bud blossomed into a flower. Yes, you knew it all along that all you wanted were the stolen moments with the lass. You should have painted this aim in black and white before things became 'major' between you.It would go something like this:Man:I don't foresee us walking down the aisle. I just want you by my side to satiate my ego and sexual desires. What do you think?Woman: Thank you for being upfront with me. Most men wouldn't do half as much. But no, I don't wish to be party to your whims.Talk of being true and never coming to rue!Men, if you don't wish to marry a lady with whom you have entered into courtship, then let the lady know. (Eight out of ten women who are in courtship today expect to tie the nuptial cord with their mates someday in the future). It is painful for the ladies when you take them for a ride, waste their years and dump them at the junction of desperation. If no one has ever told you, then let me tell you: Time, to women, when viewed against the backdrop of marriage, is of utmost importance. Don't waste their time. Be straight with them and save them the searing pain!

Monday, August 04, 2008

Discrimination!!!!

: Are they discriminated so much by

In India one of the main problem is female discrimination by men or by society. Here the society will always points out the women in any cases, reagrdless of whether there is actually a fault on them or not. If men do any thing wrong means then no one will oppose it, at the same time if women did the same thing means then this f****g society will start to target them. This socitey will always give priority to men than to women. I posted this post here becasue of the things that i saw recently here. I hope that you all got my point and the main subject of this post. I don't know whether it's happening only in India or every where. Why this society fully supports men even at the times they are doing mistakes. I want my fellow bloggers, especially my fellow foreign boggers to share about the thing what actually happens in their country in this kind of issue.


Why women should get discriminated from this society?


Women, are they weaker section compared to men?


In your country, are they both having same priority?


Sunday, August 03, 2008

I'm not a FOOL!!!!! What about you?

|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||~~~ Injurious to Health

Every one knows that Smoking is very Injurious to Health, but no one cares. Really I don't know what we can get from Smoking. We all know that through Smoking we get so many diseases. Smoking not only causes problems to the person who smokes it, but it also causes problems to the people around them.

I dedicate this post to spread some awareness about the Smoking habit. Many of us are addicted to this habit. In this list, the youth rank first. Here are some links related to this topic. Please check them out.....
One of my school teacher gave this definition for Cigarette - A paper rolled with Tobacco in which one end is fire and on the other end is a fool.

What about you?

Restricting the people from smoking, does it also mean restricting their freedom?

What's the main reason for smoking habit?
  • Self Interest
  • Media attraction
  • Change in life style
  • Other ( Please suggest what may be the other reason)
!!!!!!! I'm not a FOOL !!!!!!!!

Saturday, August 02, 2008

Can you be Trusted?

Sit in the privacy of your bedroom, look into a mirror and ask yourself, “Can I be trusted?” If you are honest with yourself, you’ll be surprised at the answers you churn.

Trust, just like many other important virtues (such as faithfulness and honesty), is becoming hard to come by today. People of integrity (literally filled to the brim with ‘trustworthiness’) are few and far between in our present world.

Our homes and workplaces are full of such people: People who don’t give two hoots about keeping their part of the bargain.

But trust is a two-way traffic. For you to be trusted you have to trust first. There is nothing for nothing. You have to invest something for you to be able to withdraw.

At the workplace, trust your colleagues enough for them to trust you in return. It is as simple as that.

Wait. Not as simple as that!

For trust to blossom and produce fruit, there is some intense work that goes into the works. You have to change some of your prejudices and stereotypes (and, if need be, discard them).

For instance, it is almost impossible for people to trust you with their money, if you cannot trust them with yours. The mathematics just adds up in people’s heads and they decide whom to trust and whom to deny trust.

So, if you find that people find it hard to trust you, my remedy is simple: Try to see how much you trust others. You may be surprised that what you have all along been expecting from people is something you have not tried to invest in them.

Try trusting some people today and you’ll be doing yourself a service. More people will trust you.

Thursday, July 31, 2008

Does Racism play a major role?

Don't get surprised because of the post title. The issue that we are going to discuss here is Racism in name of color difference among the people. Our body color is the natural one, I don't know why people fight based on color differences. What's the need for it? I am not interested to point out the country names here. By reading this post itself each and every one will realize the main thing inside this post. Even animals are not seeing these kind of differences between them, then why should we?

>>>>>>> We are far more better than you

We should learn from you <<<<<<<




Do we have sixth sense?

I think these things are happening because of our sixth sense. Is it?

I'm Black, I'm White, I'm Brown - So what?

Kindly pen down your views about racism and also try to share the information regarding this, about the things that you have experienced so far in your life time (as far as racism is concerned)..

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Mon Fils, Prend-Le Doucement: (Le SIDA Est Un Rodeur Rapace)



This is French for : My Son, Take it Slow: Aids is a Rapacious Prowler. I wrote the English version of the poem that you are going to read here shortly in November last year right here in this blog.

A certain lady in Ivory Coast, Betty Mande, after reading it, and having been touched to the core by the advice that the old lady in the poem gives to her grandson, decided to contact me. She asked for permission to translate it to French so that French speaking peoples in Africa (and the world over) could be reached by the “urgent” message (as she put it). I readily agreed.
Read the English Version Here.


Mon Fils, Prend-Le Doucement: (Le SIDA Est Un Rodeur Rapace)

Mon fils, je suis maintenant une vieille femme,
Je sens mes ancêtres me faire signe,
Mon coeur est penché et peureux !
Mon corps : vieux et fragile.

Dans les années, j’ai été au tour,
J’ai beaucoup appris concernant le monde,
Je sens le temps est prêt,
Pour partager avec vous mon arsenal.

Dans les mois recents, j’ étais entrain de vous regarder,
Vous regardant ardemment, regardant avec des yeux de tristesse,
Mes yeux n’avaient pas sommeillé dans ma veille,
Ma garde n’avait pas fondu en sentinelle.

Mon fils, j’ai peur de ce que je vois,
J’ai peur de ce que je rêve,
J’ai peur de ce que je vois dans tes yeux,
J’ai peur de ton ardeur et de ton courage.

Mon fils, j’ai peur,
Le plus je pense à ce que tu fais,
Le plus, je suis vieux que mon âge,
Le plus, le peuple commente sur ma vieillesse.

Ceux-ci sont les jours noirs, mon fils,
Jours où ton grand-pére et moi n’avaient jamais rêvé,
Jours comblés par l’obscurité,
Jours dont constament j’essaie de souhaiter loin.

Mon fils, ne t’ ennuie pas, tiens bon,
Je ne suis pas arrogant, sois-en sûr,
Ecoute-moi cette fois,
Ecoute l’ hésitation dans ma voix.

Ceci est le troisième mois depuis que j’ ai commencé ma vigile,
Mon fils, je vois les differentes dames à tes côtés chapue jour passant,
Les dames fabuleusement batues,
Dames au monde renversé te tiennent compagnie.

On t’appelle, ‘Monsieur Boss, l’ homme en mouvement’,
Merci aux énumerables partenaires sexuels que tu detiens,
Ceci est foux, mon fils,
Ça s’appelle sale injustice et malgloire.

Mon fils, veuxe-tu me voir aller à la tombe précossement ?
Veux-tu me laisser parler moi-même jusqu’ à la voix rauque ?
Veux-tu me laisser mouiller mon oreiller de larmes pendant des heures ?
Veux-tu que je te voies tomber comme de pierres à la carrière ?

Quand le SID A te souris, mon fils,
Il n’ y aura pas un retour en arrière,
Ça te mangera et te rongera jusqu’ à la moelle,
Ça te tournera de l’ exterieur – s’il te plait, épargne-moi de douleurs !

Je ne veux pas imaginer (mais c’est une part de maux nocturnes que je ne peux éviter),
Le plus élancé, beau garçon que je connais,
Reduisant à une regretable sculpture,
Une sculpture aux plaies, furoncles et cheveux tombant...

Mon fils, le SIDA est réel,
Ça rode le voisinage avec vengeance,
De grâce, assieds-toi et repense à ta conduite,
Une HIV libre génération commence par toi, mon fils.
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